Showing posts with label pictures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pictures. Show all posts

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Saturday Night Fever at the Disco

I'm a bit behind on the blog so I'll try to catch up a bit tonight. The time line is going to be all screwy but how about I start with today and work my way back and see how that goes?

Today was the big day. We went to Baby Loves Disco! George is out of town right now (sad face) so our friends Caterina and Geoff said that they would love to go with me and Oliver. BLD is a nationwide event for kids under seven. It's a fun space (usually a local club) where they can groove, get down, and shake their thang! After being a bit overwhelmed at first by all the lights, bubbles, music, and activity, Oliver settled right in and showed us his stuff. Caterina quickly caught on to his moves and has, herself, perfected "the Oliver": shake your fists in the air and do bouncing squats! That'll get your butt into shape.

It wasn't until we were leaving that I noticed he had a fever. When I got home I took his temperature and sure enough - fever. This time it is under 101 degrees (F) which is a good thing. He has been coughing and sneezing all day so I figure it is just a cold. O is sleeping now and I am dreading calling the on-call hematologist about it. The last thing I feel like doing is dragging ourselves into the ER when I know it is just a cold. I'll see what they say when I call.

Oh, and here is something momentous...Oliver wore a hat last night for 30 minutes and today for 20! Anyone who knows Oliver personally also knows that he can't stand having anything touching his head. Until now. Huh. You just never know about that crazy kid.

Jump back to October with me for a moment here. I didn't get the chance to let you know what we did for Halloween. Turns out, not much. We had grand plans that involved a lot of construction for our costume idea (not telling!) but without any extra hands around to amuse The Vole our plans never got off the ground.

Oliver did dress up twice though. Once on Halloween in the clinic during his monthly transfusion. He was dressed as a skeleton. You can see him here with his friend Matthew who also has DBA. We finally got to coordinate their transfusions on the same day so they hung out in the pack and play together. It sure did make the day go faster. The hospital also sent out volunteers to bring the trick or treating to the kids. It was fun watching adults and kids parade in and out of the clinic in their costumes handing out goodies.

The other time Oliver dressed up was at the Parent Infant Program were we go on Tuesdays and Thursdays. A giraffe! The beans kept him pretty distracted but he wasn't fooled for long and wanted out of the costume.

Now that I think of it....I suppose I can also include the Day of the Dead parade in the Mission district.

George's mom, Pauline, came to visit from November 2nd to the 12th. She arrived a bit weary from jet lag and I think looking forward to a quiet evening. But, oh... not so when you come to visit us having not slept for over 24 hours!


We decided that the only reasonable thing to do was to drag Pauline out for a night on the town. Does this photo convince you that we made the most reasonable choice?


In spite of the late first night carousing with the dead, Pauline managed to survive her visit with us. We had a great visit and consider ourselves lucky that we have such loving grandparents who are willing to travel many miles across seas and continents alike to visit with The Vole. Yes! Keep coming! We love having you all here. Especially Oliver. Visits with grandparents are unlike anything in this world. It's the best.

Before I sign off, I'd like to share two more pictures. They are from our trip to Portland and just crack me up.

I think Oliver felt like a cool cat in these glasses. He kept taking them on and off and looking at himself in the mirror and then laughing heartily.
This last one I love too. It took a lot of time to get this picture. I don't think that hat stayed on for more than 2 seconds at a time. We didn't buy it for him, of course, but I think it's a great look on him.

That Vole.... he can wear anything and look like a million bucks. Who does he get that from anyway?

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Oliver on the farm

Matthias and O hanging on to the radio flyer...weeeeeee

Sunday, October 21, 2007

The Vole @ The Voodoo Doughnut, Portland


The magic is in the hole. Quite. But The Vole feels the ATM is a good second bet

All better!

Fever passed. Then 36 hrs of on again off again projectile vomiting. But now the end of the suffering seems near and The Vole is perking up. Yay!

Friday, October 19, 2007

Elton Vole

Oliver searches for the lost chord

Thursday, October 18, 2007

You give me fever

We're in Portland and its dark wet and cold. But not The Vole. To compensate for the gloom he's up to 101.7 and shining like a beacon. So we phone it in and wait. Who knows maybe we'll be able to do a comparison of hospital food here vs San Francisco. More later.

Thursday, September 27, 2007

When it's good, it's good. When it's bad, it's bad.

August 16th, I brought The Vole in for a scheduled transfusion at noon. I typically bring him in to the UCSF pediatric hematology/oncology clinic every 3 to 4 weeks. This time, however, we wanted to push his system a bit, wait for 5 weeks and see how he responded. Turns out, he did okay. His blood levels hadn't dropped to a critical point and he didn't seem too affected by the anemia.

The days I bring him are usually not too bad. We'll spend up to 6 hours at these appointments and we use a pack and play that was donated to the clinic. Frankly, I couldn't do it without the play pen. He is so active there is no way could hold him in my lap for that long. As it is, he finds it very frustrating to not be able to crawl around on the floor.

Well, the week before we went in I was noticing that his line looked different to me. When I would flush the line I could see dark shadows moving - I shouldn't see anything moving in the line! So, one of Oliver's nurses, Stella, took a look and determined that there was a hole in the inner tubing and blood was collecting between the outer and inner layers. This means that after a years time we now need to make some repairs.

The picture to the right is Stella holding Oliver while letting him play with his infusion pump used to transfuse him with blood. Check out the bag hanging above O... ghoulish, no?

For some reason, on this particular day, Oliver had got his panties in a bunch and decided to throw his first temper tantrums (several over the course of the day) and also couldn't settle down to take a nap. Nobody is happy. By that, I mean, I am not happy.

You can see how frustrated he is in the picture to the left. He is so strong, and so annoyed about being in the pack and play that he has completely lifted himself off of the mat with the strength of his arms. He does this several times. Go Oliver!

5 o'clock rolls around, O is done with the transfusion and he is still awake. The problem is we now need to repair his central line but to do so he needs to be absolutely still. My suggestion is Benadryl... a surefire way to knock him out for at least an hour. In the meantime, I have called George to come be with us during the procedure . It's great to have him around when he arrives. I have found that I just can't quite deal with these additional situations as well on my own. Mama of The Vole needs backup! Who better to call than Keeper of The Vole?

As you can see from this photo to the left, Oliver is now passed out from both exhaustion and the Benadryl. I've covered his eyes with a shirt to keep out the light. Repair is underway.

Nope! That's not blood you see. It's Betadine splashed around the site to keep it clean. If you look at the white gloved hand, you'll notice the splint that now connects the original portion of the tubing and the new tubing held together by.... glue. Hmmmm.... I admit to low confidence in the procedure.

We are almost done with the repair when Oliver wakes up, now needs to be restrained, and he proceeds to freak out. I don't blame him. I would too. Poor guy. He really goes through more bullshit than you can imagine. And amazingly, he handles it all remarkably well. Anyway, by the time the repair is finished, my nerves are completely shot, George is desperately trying to console him, and Oliver is ready to pack his bags and get out of town. We go home and crash for the night.

Fast forward to September 14th. We are back for his next scheduled transfusion and this day is much, much better. Oliver fell asleep within 10 minutes of
watching "Elmo goes to Grouchland" and slept for a solid two hours. Hooray for Oliver! You can see him here asleep in the pack and play while receiving blood.

I've also included a picture of the view from our room that day. This is looking east towards downtown.

If you look carefully you can see the Transamerica building in the right of the photo. Some days we have a view to the north and can see Golden Gate Park and the de Young Museum.

The weekend comes and goes; completely pleasant and uneventful. The same goes for all day Monday until about 9pm. George had just left the apartment, I was putting Oliver to bed, turned off the light when I heard him poop. So, I turn the light back on and notice that something is not right. He is in his usual position to sleep, on his tummy with his knees under him, but his behavior is odd. At first I thought he was concentrating hard on a poop but then I just knew something was wrong. It's weird how you "know". I didn't actually "know" anything other than something had changed, and not for the better. I call George to come back downstairs and by the time he does (less than a minute) Oliver is now shaking and unresponsive.

We quickly grab our things and off to the hospital we race. Other than when he was first born this is the most scared that George and I have been about Oliver's immediate well being. Within 5 minutes of arriving at the UCSF Emergency Department Oliver comes around, sees buttons to push and begins pointing at everything. As I am trying to convince the doctor examining Oliver that he really was doing something frightening, Oliver throws up all over us and now has a fever of 103F/39.4C degrees. Okay. We're not nuts.

Oliver is carefully observed, given Tylenol (and then throws up all over his nurse), blood cultures are sent to the lab, and antibiotics are begun (standard of care for him with fever because of central line). Turns out that what we saw happen was a febrile seizure. This occurs mostly in kids his age in response to a rapid rise in temperature and we are quickly assured not to worry about any lasting effects.

After O is treated and the doctors are sure he is okay we wearily drag ourselves out of there and arrive home by 4 in the morning. That next day Oliver and I head out to the Hem/Onc Clinic for his second dose of antibiotics. We didn't go until late in the afternoon since we were so tired that morning. Around 6pm we are ready to leave when his nurse case manager, Laura, informs us not to leave... his blood cultures have just come back positive for a gram negative organism. Oliver has bacteremia. Given his constellation of signs and symptoms (shaking chills, high fever, vomiting and diarrhea) I would go so far to say it progressed to septicemia.

I call George and let him know that we are going to be admitted into the hospital. Laura and I walk across the street with Oliver and it's back to 7Long we go (the pediatric hem/onc floor). Unfortunately it's a familiar place, having been there a couple times before. This time, however, Oliver is placed in isolation. Not surprising since many of the kids on this floor are severely immunocompromised. We don't know what bug is roaming around in our boy at this point and precautions need to be taken to protect the other children. This means everyone who comes in is fully gloved and gowned to avoid accidental transfer to another patient. This also means that Oliver cannot leave the room. It's going to be a long week....

At 3am that night Oliver has chills and within 2 minutes has gone from a normal temperature 97.7F/36.5C to 104F/40C degrees. Wow! The nurse kept taking his temperature because she couldn't believe that it had jumped that fast. Next thing I know he is baking hot and we are giving him Tylenol again. The concern is that he not have another seizure. Now that he has had one he has about 30% chance or greater of another until about 6 years of age.

It's not until Thursday (I think) that we find out the name of the culprit - E. coli. Not the highly toxic kind you hear about on the news but
the generally benign organism that lives in our gut. For reasons unknown, they permeated his intestinal lining and the central line may have played part in harboring the bug allowing it to get out of control. Now there is discussion about removing his Broviac catheter.

We knew there may be a chance of removing his catheter after it was repaired but the hope was that we could wait till we saw what kind of response he had to the steroids. So, I forgot to mention that the Monday he got sick was the first day we started giving him Prednisone. The plan is to give the maximum dose of Prednisone for a 2-4 week trial and start tapering the dosage once he is seen to have a response (only about 30% of DBA patients will respond). The response they are looking for is an increase in red cell production decreasing or eliminating the need for blood transfusions (more about this in another post later).

Well, that Monday we had just given him his second dose of Prednisone and within 30 minutes he is having a seizure. At the time we had no way of knowing if he was having a toxicity reaction to his medication or was sick due to some other cause. I think this is another reason this episode was so scary.

The end result of all of this is we are discharged Friday, September 21st and can continue administering his antibiotics at home. Hooray!


This is Oliver very excited that we are about to blow out of here within the hour.

The current plan is to check blood cultures again the first week of October to be sure the bugs have been squashed. He'll be transfused on October 5th and then he is readmitted into the hospital on October 10th in preparation of surgery the morning of October 11th. It's been decided to switch out his Broviac catheter in favor of a Port. Finally, Oliver will be able to have baths, be fully immersed in water, I'll no longer need to maintain his line everyday, and best of all it will greatly reduce his risk of infection. The down side is that he will now have to endure needle sticks. Hopefully, in the end it will greatly improve the quality of life for all of us.

I'll be sure to keep you all informed about how the procedure goes and if you please, keep Oliver in your thoughts and prayers.


Tuesday, September 11, 2007

The Accomplished Vole

(checkout the brightly colored UPDATES!!!)

Have you ever heard those parents who endlessly go on about how great their kid is? Completely unaware that you may have something to say about your life and it probably doesn't have anything to do with children at all. And on and on they go about the whys and the hows of their little genetic prodigy sending all those around them glaze over and enter into a torpid state nearly like oblivion.

Well... think I may have become one of them. Oops.

I know that all parents think their kid is the greatest kid in the whole world but I have to say, I think Oliver really is the greatest kid in the whole world. And just to prove it to you, I have decided to list all (well... there are tons more but these are the highlights) of the amazing things that he is able to do. And remember: we were told after he was born that he was not supposed to be able to do most, if any of these things!

Let's just call this Vole Appreciation Day.


WORDS (pronunciation not perfect but we're getting there):

mama, dada, duck, quack, hat, hot (ha), good (goo), mom mom, diaper (di di), home, dog, banana (nana), yeah, yes, water (wawa), Gigi (his playmate), updated 11/6/07: go, on, in, this/that (dee), apple, cold, cool, pee pee, bath (bah), makes monkey and sheep sounds, no!, fantastic (ta ta), taxi (tahya), nose, eyes, mouth (maow), bottle (ba ba), toes, tea, choo choo, book (boo), ball (gall), hi, bye bye, elmo, pumpkin (pump pump), wow, done, fish (fis), light (ight)

SIGNS (this is a big deal since he has always been reluctant to use his hands):

dog, pig, fish, eat, hat, done, more, wheels of the bus song (wheels go round, doors open and shut, people go up and down, horn goes beep, wipers swish), hug, updated 11/6/07: monkey, sleep, twisting motions of hands for motorcycle complete with vroom vroom, done, fish

ACTIONS (a very short list of a very active boy's abilities):

walking, drinks out of a cup, climbs everything, goes up and down stairs, goes down slides and climbs up them too, throws balls and plays catch, blows kisses and gives big wet ones too, claps hands, waves bye bye, Indian howl, mimics sneezing and coughing, blinks his eyes to flirt, blows on food when too hot, learning to snap fingers, claps in time to music, loves to "play" the piano and bang on drums, laughs hysterically a lot, plays peek a boo, high five, dances, asserts his needs with a fierceness that would make Attila the Hun proud, updated 11/6/07: points, uses potty, trying to run, jumps, turns around in place to a favorite song, points at eyes, ears, nose, mouth, toes, brushes his teeth, uses a fork and spoon

...phew! There's more, but you get the idea. Oliver, clearly, is a very busy boy with lots of things to do in a day, so he is not going to let some pesky pessimistic doctors dire predictions get in the way of the days fun. He is one CAN DO kid!

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

The Big Birthday Bash

Aaaccckk!!! Who set my cake on fire!


Oliver and his friends Julian (l) and Gigi (r) eat birthday cake.
Julian admires Oliver in his birthday crown.



Oliver turned 13 months old today. How is this happening? I'm just getting over the fact that he is one year old. I know what's going to happen -- one minute he is laughing his head off because he figured out he can suck on my nose and make me laugh and the next minute he'll be old enough to be horrified that he ever sucked on my nose at all. Ah, well... I want nothing more than for Oliver to grow up and find someone who's nose he can be excited to suck on.

Anyway, all this growing up business also means that it was one month ago that we held Oliver's birthday party on Baker Beach, right next to the Pacific Ocean for those of you that don't know the area. Given that we feel like we are just barely treading water most of the time we were fortunate that our friends Sarah and Sabrina stepped up and organized the party for us. Thanks again you two!!! It's likely that had they not done so we would not have had a party at all.

Well, in case you don't know this... one of the things that I love about George (and there are many things, mind you) is his natural ability to feel and express enthusiasm. This enthusiasm often often leads to excess. Not that that is a bad thing... it's just it usually takes me by surprise. So, the nice little party of 10 to 20 or so people I thought might show up turned in to about 60 or more! Oliver is one lucky little dude to have so many fans.

With so many people it was tough to chat with everyone the way we would have liked but it was fabulous to see everyone there. Folks brought their families, their dogs and their high spirits. George did a great job with the decorations; blue and yellow helium balloons, lots of rubber duckies to give away and a pinata. The weather turned out to be a bit foggy but it was pleasantly cool and not too windy. Perfect.

Somehow we managed not to take any photos. If there is anyone reading this who has pictures from the party please send them to us! We'd love to have them. Even though we don't have any still photos from the party, we do have some video. I haven't figured out how to attach video to the blog yet but I included the links to seeing what Oliver did that morning of his birthday at Sarah's here and the video of us singing happy birthday to him at the beach.

Thanks to everyone who came to the party and made it so much fun. And to those who couldn't make it -- we missed you!

Monday, August 13, 2007

Mom Mom Visits The Vole

Once again, I need to engage in a bit of retroactive catch up. I'll try my best to get up to date over the next couple of days. This is my first installment.

I'll start with the beginning of summer. The last week of June and the first couple weeks of July, my mom came to visit for a little over two weeks. Well... she and Oliver had the time of their lives. Mom did me the tremendous favor of taking Oliver in the mornings when he woke up so I could catch up on some sleep. By the time I got up he was in a new diaper and clothes, fed and watered, and playing with Mom Mom. Wow! Thanks mom.

Oliver has not been known (until very recently) to have a very long attention span, but somehow, my mom captured his attention like no one else. She would sing, dance, and teach him new "tricks" with a relentless ferocity that only a Mom Mom could do. And all the while Oliver would look up at her with rapt attention. Take the following pictures, for example:

Rapt I tell you. I could stand on my head and sing the star spangled banner and I couldn't get his attention like that.

And look how happy they are!


Again, eating breakfast out, Mom Mom is teaching Oliver some important life lesson. He is all ears.

Some of the highlights of mom's visit include my refrigerator dying over the weekend (that was a four day stinky mess), trips to Oliver's daily appointments, a visit to the zoo, 4th of July fireworks in the park, and a special getaway to Napa. While in Napa we went to Indian Springs Spa. Oliver wore mom out while George and I enjoyed a mud bath and then the pool. Eventually Oliver wore himself out, giving Mom Mom a break.


Thanks again mom for all the help! George, Oliver and I all had a great time while you were here and we are so glad that you are coming to visit again in September.

Seriously people, you need to know that mom taught Oliver how to do more things in two weeks then all his physical and occupational therapists over the past several months. Call it good timing if you must... but I just call it the power of Mom Mom.

Here, mom and I gaze into my (then new) camera phone while out to dinner at the Beach Chalet.

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Nature or Nurture?

It's been near a mere year since Oliver was born and I have had plenty of time to ponder how much of who we are is determined by nature or nurture. I think I have made my decision. Take a look at these faces.

Thursday, June 21, 2007

A Brief Check-In

Allow me to go nuts for a moment here. I recently bought a new cell phone with a camera function. I just took a look at the photos I have taken and I have got to share them with you. Here are some of my favorite photos.




Here we are in the park at the panhandle. I tried to explain to Oliver that no matter how much he loves sand, his new look is just in poor taste. With a reproachful look in his eye, he merely responded by saying "Heil Sand!"



This was a fun morning at our one of our favorite breakfast spots, The Pork Store. Well... Oliver was having fun until I decided to use the camera light. Yeouch!!



Ahhhhh. That's better. Now Oliver can look me straight in the eye and say, "Why mom? Why would you do that to me?"
Note: The hair. This is how Oliver looks after George very lovingly preens him.



And last, but certainly not least, this photo is from tonight. After a hard day at play and no naps, Oliver succumbs to exhaustion in mid chew. He woke up briefly 2 hours later with a confused look on his face wondering how he got into bed and why there was food in his mouth.

All in all, this has been a great month. Oliver is doing fantastically well. I am enjoying every moment with him. Every achievement is a huge victory and it brings tears of happiness to my eyes.

Mom is coming to visit next week for a little over 2 weeks. I am looking forward to her stay and I think she and Oliver will have a blast together. Hopefully, this will me a get a bit more time to fill in the gaps with what we have been doing this month.

I'll be back soon!